Category: The Herd
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A Butterfly that Knows Itself Can Change the World
I hesitated to write this column because, I said to myself, I am worrying about what I can’t control, and I tell my clients all the time not to do this – not to worry about what you can’t change. I am worried about the United States. Recall that my ancestors came from there. I…
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Fear and Flying
I think I suffer from a form of OCD. You know what OCD is, don’t you? It’s an anxiety disorder where you seek to relieve your anxiety by performing a compulsive task. I worry about becoming irrelevant. So to deal with that anxiety, I learned to fly. Surely pilots are relevant. I became a pilot…
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Lane Departure
I used to drive somewhat faster on the highway than I do now. I have been influenced to change by several factors: when we had children, I became concerned about safety; then I learned that most gasoline engines operate at peak efficiency at about 80 km/hr: therefore by slowing down I was saving money and…
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Two Roads Diverged
I belong to an organization that has imploded recently. We were anxious about running a large public event after the pandemic. We divided into two camps: some of us had a lot of faith that we could pull this off and that it would be of benefit to a larger audience. Others were more cautious…
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Finishing Things
My sister-in-law Karen died this year. She had had a rare form of cancer. She fought it valiantly for some time, but her body just got tired. She was married, with three adult children – two with special needs. She had a supportive husband. She worked as a neonatal nurse. We weren’t close but we…
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The Furnace
This is from last year but as fall approaches I think of this again and I smile: my knee is much better. The bathroom is still not finished but it’s really close. And the furnace tech has forgiven me… I live in a rural area and winter is coming. There are a number of preparations.…
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Legacy
I am eight years old and leaving my parents for the first time. Leaving the country even. My grandparents are taking me on a road trip to visit my Great Uncle Carl. This is us, Carl the younger and Carl the older, at my grandparents’ home in Burlington, Ontario. You will notice in the picture…